Beautiful girl dating an ugly guy
Various forces—a maelstrom of the biological, psychological, and cultural—dictate how we feel about them. We are but insignificant flesh-krill in a tumultuous sea of judgment, shame, and confusion. Having discussed these issues at length with lovers and compatriots alike, we decided to conduct a little unofficial poll as a beacon of light to guide our battered ship away from the shoals. I've managed to swing some good looking partners, but with that comes it's own complications.
The very core of patriarchy and all associated problems is rooted in a myth that so many men honestly believe – that we are less “visual” than they are.
Many of us continue to bow to society’s pressure, outwardly pretending this myth is reality, often even to the point of essentially prostituting ourselves out of desperation for marriage/kids and rationalizing it as “love”.
In navigating these often dark, frigid, and frightening love-waters, we hope our poll helped re-calibrate your compass.
When a guy who is short, fat or balding does it, it makes my skin crawl no matter how tactful he is about it. If said ugly guy doesn’t pick up on social cues that I’m not interested in getting to know him, it makes me even more uncomfortable than just him being there already does. I’m a human being, not an uggo like you, and I don’t do bestiality. Many of you men reading this will tell yourselves I’m just a b*tch and delude yourselves into thinking I’m in the minority, or that this is satire. These are my honest feelings, and I’m NOT alone in feeling this way.
Personality comes later but is equally important—there's the 'Do I want to get in bed with this person?
' question then there's the 'Do I want them to still be there in the morning? Different, but equally important."So there you have it.Misogyny, like racism or class hatred, is rooted in a deep feeling of inadequacy.It took me a long time to learn this, but in doing so, I became a man.Books, television shows, and movies often portray less attractive guys getting a 'hot"'girl, but ultimately they objectify women as being some kind of 'prize' to be won.As someone who was raised to be a gentleman, in my youth I thought this meant that if I was nice to girls that I was entitled to date an attractive woman. When a very attractive stranger approaches me and tells me I’m beautiful, it brightens my day. Most women feel the same, but hide the true extent of it when the guys are around. If you’re any combination of short, balding, fat or 10 years older than me, please, for your own sake and mine, kindly F*CK OFF! Yes, I mean “kind” as in “different species”, because that’s what you are to me.I have to deal with this sh*t constantly everywhere I go, and it never stops. You should be socially aware enough to know disinterest when it’s right in front of your homely ass face! Most women DO secretly feel this way, and THAT’s why we have sexual harassment laws!The only thing I need a man for is sex and reproduction.I can easily land a hot guy for marriage and relationships, so I don’t have to prostitute myself out to an average looking guy just so I can get married and have kids.Real attraction is entirely about looks, and ONLY looks.If you try to circumvent that rule, you show an entitlement mentality, and it’s obvious you think we owe you our sexual servicies.